English supermodel and actress, Cara Delevingne, has shared what she finds interesting about sex including her experiences with men and women and how she came to accept her sexuality.
The 26-year-old model, who is currently dating Pretty Little Liars actress Ashley Benson, 29, ‘spilled the tee’ in an access-all-areas chat on RuPaul podcast What’s The Tee? this week.
On her prowess in the bedroom, after losing her virginity at 18, Cara said: ‘I’m very good at giving love and not at receiving it. I’m the same in bed.
‘I find it quite difficult to receive pleasure and love and things like that, so I love to give.’
Cara also said that the best ‘gift’ she could give to a lover would be an orgasm – which she’d rather be doing than partying, these days.
She said: ‘I used to go to clubs but I’d rather have sex than go out now.’
She continued: ‘Part of sex — that connection — is feral. You meet someone but when you go in the bedroom, it’s another animal.
‘To me, that is so interesting. There are certain people who are super-sexy and they flirt with you, then you have sex with them and they are terrible.
‘But I like people who seem really prudish then, when they get in the bedroom, they’re like, ‘What?!’ It’s like a whole transformation.’
On her varied experiences in the bedroom, Cara continued: ‘I can allow pleasure but it’s hard to find that person. I have found them before, for sure.
‘That whole courting process of power is very interesting. And it’s a difference with men and women.
‘I’m always very submissive with men. Always. But with women, I’m the opposite. So it’s weird.’
On her sexuality, Cara spoke on her understanding of her sexuality, saying she was shaped by what she learned in Disney films.
She said: ‘Films and fantasy and books were so incredible to me and I learned so many lessons from that.
‘That was why I never wanted to accept my sexuality. Disney princesses all love men and that’s the way it is. And I’m not going to be a princess if I don’t like men.’
Cara who identified herself as ‘sexually fluid’ has had plenty of A-list ex-boyfriends, including musicians Jake Bugg and Harry Styles, but she’s since
She has also been romantically linked to Rita Ora, Michelle Rodriguez, and Paris Jackson.